I asked for help! We think we can handle it all - work, housekeeping, taking care of kids, ourselves and dinner?! Hot tip, if you want help, don’t criticize the help!
If you ask your partner to load the dishwasher, don’t be upset if they DON’T load it “your way” (you know what I mean)..
Or if you ask for your partner to pick up groceries at the store, don’t be upset when the come back with “the wrong one” (or in my case the one that wasn’t on sale lol)
Instead, say thank you & move on! This whole thing has given me so much peace. Not to mention, helped my relationship. Who wants to be around a nagging individual all the time? NO ONE.